The way you see yourself determines how you relate to everyone around you. An 8-module clinical and faith-integrated course on how identity — self-perception, self-worth, and the lens through which you see yourself — directly shapes your capacity for honesty, accountability, boundaries, forgiveness, trust, and restored relationship.
Dr. Quinones brings over 20 years of clinical experience spanning jail cells, rehab centers, and private practice. A forensic psychologist and certified human behavior consultant, she is the author of 30+ published works integrating trauma science with biblical truth. She holds dual state licensure and has spent her career at the intersection of identity and relationship — examining how distorted self-perception creates the relational injuries that repeat, and how a renewed sense of self-worth is the foundation for everything that follows.
Your "Eye-Dentity" — the internal lens through which you perceive yourself — is not just a personal matter. It is a relational one. Every interaction you have, every boundary you set or fail to set, every moment you extend or withhold forgiveness, every attempt at trust or connection — all of it flows from how you see yourself. This course examines that lens.
When self-perception is shaped by shame, trauma, or false narratives, it produces predictable relational patterns — dishonesty, boundary collapse, over-giving, unforgiveness, distrust.
Each of the six Relational Integrity principles — Honesty, Accountability, Boundaries, Forgiveness, Trust, Restored Relationship — is examined through the filter of identity. What happens to each when self-worth is distorted?
Identity redefinition is not cosmetic. This course works at the root — the beliefs, formations, and internalized narratives that govern your self-perception — and rebuilds from there.
From naming the distortions in self-perception to applying a renewed identity across all six principles of Relational Integrity.
Introduction to the central premise: self-perception is not a private matter — it is relational infrastructure. How distorted identity creates the conditions for dishonesty, boundary collapse, unforgiveness, and broken trust. Assessment tools for identifying your current identity lens and the relational patterns it produces.
Tracing the roots of distorted self-perception — early relational wounds, trauma, shame, false messages from authority figures, and the stories we internalized before we had language to question them. Clinical and biblical frameworks for understanding how identity is formed, how it becomes distorted, and why distortion persists even in the presence of contradicting evidence.
The first Relational Integrity principle examined through the identity lens. How distorted self-perception — shame, grandiosity, fear — makes genuine honesty nearly impossible. What it takes to tell the truth about yourself when your self-concept is built on distortion. The relationship between identity clarity and the capacity for radical honesty in relationship.
How distorted identity produces both over-accountability (shame-based self-blame) and under-accountability (defensive denial). Genuine accountability requires a stable enough sense of self to absorb consequences without collapsing or deflecting. What a redefined identity makes possible that distorted identity cannot — and how to move from performance of repentance to ownership that produces change.
Boundaries are not just behavioral — they are identity statements. What you protect reflects what you believe you are worth. How distorted self-worth produces chronic boundary collapse, over-accommodation, or rigid defensive walls. A clinical and faith-integrated framework for boundaries as an expression of God-given worth — and the identity shifts required to hold them.
The paradox of forgiveness: the capacity to release harm done to us is grounded in how securely we know our own worth. Distorted identity keeps people bound to injury — because unforgiveness is often tied to an identity that needs the wrong to remain visible. Clinical and theological perspectives on how identity redefinition unlocks the forgiveness that distorted self-worth makes inaccessible.
Trust is not just a judgment about others — it reflects what we believe we deserve and are capable of sustaining. How distorted identity produces trust patterns that are either indiscriminate (trusting too quickly from a place of low worth) or impenetrable (refusing trust from a place of self-protection). The identity shifts that make discerning, earned trust possible.
The sixth Relational Integrity principle — restored relationship — is only sustainable when it is grounded in a restored identity. What it looks like to live from a redefined Eye-Dentity: the ongoing practice of seeing yourself truthfully, holding your worth without performance, and relating to others from abundance rather than deficit. Your personal Identity Integration Plan for carrying this work forward.
The complete written framework by Dr. Quinones — all eight modules of identity examination and relational integrity application — is included with your enrollment. Clinical exercises, biblical reflection prompts, self-assessments, and identity restructuring tools. Download it, work through it alongside each module, and return to it throughout your healing journey.
Eight modules. All six Relational Integrity principles. A new lens — for you, and for everyone you love.
Enroll for $497For anyone who senses that the way they see themselves is keeping them stuck — in relational patterns, in self-sabotage, in the inability to hold boundaries or trust — and who wants a structured, Christ-centered framework for identity renewal from the root.
Recommended as a between-session resource for clients working on identity, self-worth, and relational patterns. Pairs with narrative therapy, schema therapy, attachment-focused work, identity-based interventions, and trauma-informed CBT.
A clinical and faith-integrated course on identity redefinition and its implications for relational integrity — recommended by clinicians as a structured between-session resource for clients working on self-worth, identity, and relational patterns.
⚠ This course is educational in nature and is not a substitute for licensed therapy or counseling. If you are in crisis, please contact your therapist or call 988 (Suicide & Crisis Lifeline).