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Building Covenant Through Relational Integrity · Premarital Series, Course 2 · $199 (payment plan available)

Secure Love

Attachment Theory & Emotional Bonding — an evidence-informed, biblically grounded course for couples, premarital ministry, and counseling formation

“Therefore a man shall leave his father and his mother and hold fast to his wife, and they shall become one flesh.” — Genesis 2:24
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About This Course

Human beings are wired for connection. From our first breath we reach for a safe, dependable presence — and the way those early bonds were answered quietly shapes how we love as adults. Secure Love takes the best of contemporary relationship science (Bowlby and Ainsworth’s attachment research, John & Julie Gottman’s decades of marriage studies, and Sue Johnson’s Emotionally Focused approach) and reads it alongside the biblical vision of covenant love: faithful, present, and unafraid.

The course moves through six modules — each containing three focused 20–25 minute lessons (about 60–75 minutes per module). You will progress from understanding the science of attachment, to assessing your own patterns, to building practical bonding skills, and finally to authoring a personalized, actionable growth plan you can carry into marriage and ministry.

6 Modules · 18 Lessons Evidence-based Biblically integrated Self-scoring quizzes Fillable worksheets Reflection & discussion Capstone growth plan

How interactivity works: Your notes, worksheet answers, discussion posts, quiz results, and completed-lesson checkmarks save automatically in this browser on this device. Use the download buttons in each lesson to export your work, and the buttons below to export or print everything for your portfolio.

Course Capstone

By the end of Secure Love: Attachment Theory and Emotional Bonding, participants will be able to:

Final Project — The Secure Love Growth Plan

Your capstone gathers your work from across the course into one document. Complete each lesson’s worksheet, then click “Download all my work” at the top to assemble your plan, which should include:

  • Individual attachment assessment
  • Couple attachment map
  • Top five emotional triggers
  • Communication commitments
  • Conflict repair strategy
  • Emotional connection rituals
  • Six-month relationship goals
  • One-year secure attachment action plan

Program Clarity

GraceRoot courses are psychoeducational learning programs, not emergency care, legal advice, or a replacement for therapy. Certificates document GraceRoot completion. Court, employer, board, or continuing education acceptance should be confirmed before purchase unless a page states a specific approval.