Thirteen guides that ask you to write rather than agree. Map the family you actually grew up in, find the two words you were handed at nine, count what the rescuing was supposed to buy, and work out which repair is available and which is not. Every guide names who it is for, roughly how long it takes, and when to stop.
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The workbook opens with a picker: eleven sentences about where you actually are, each pointing at the guide to open first. Nothing here is meant to be done in order.
Guide I lays out every person, the year they arrived, and who carried more that year. Families say they raised us the same; this is where that sentence gets tested, kindly.
The Rescue Ledger asks the question that stops most people cold: what was all that helping supposed to buy? Most answers are about worth, or fear, or a parent.
What happened to me and what happened because of me get their own pages, on purpose, because an apology that contains the first one is not an apology.
Each one tells you the point at which to put it down for the day. Two guides say plainly that they are not for tonight.
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This is the part a PDF cannot do. Everything written in the workbook is saved to the GraceRoot account that opened it, so it survives a cleared browser, a swapped device or a full tablet. It is readable only by that account — GraceRoot staff have no view of a client's responses, and nothing written here feeds any report. Export or erase it all at any time from inside the workbook.
No. Each guide carries its own instructions and can be worked on its own. It goes deeper alongside The Scar Came Before the Scar, and every guide names the chapters it came from.
No. It is structured self-reflection, and it says so on every guide that touches something heavy. Guide X, on when repair is not possible, is specifically written to be worked with support rather than alone.
Guide XII is the only one built for two, and it sets the terms before it asks anything. The rest are written for one person and their own sheet — Guide I can be drawn side by side and compared afterward.
Guide XI is yours, and it is the most hopeful one in the workbook. It is about preventing the pattern rather than auditing yourself for it.
To the account that opened the workbook, so the same answers appear on any device you sign in on. GraceRoot staff do not read them — there is no staff screen that shows them. Export or erase everything at any time from inside the workbook.
Yes. A one-time purchase is permanent access, including future updates, and it is included with the all-access and Family memberships.
The welcome pages, the SWAN Reflection Scale and the first worksheet are free to work through. If it fits, the full workbook is $29 once, or included with the Flourishing and Family plans.
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