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Interactive workbook

What am I carrying that was never mine? What am I handing on that is mine?

Every chapter of the book ends with the same two questions, in the same order. This workbook gives you room to answer both fifteen times — then take one item from each column through Acknowledge, Accept, and Act — plus two field guides for the work that follows.

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What is inside

The interactive workbook for the two questions at the end of every chapter

Two columns, then three steps

Name what you are carrying. Name what you are handing on. Then take one item from each column through Acknowledge, Accept, and Act — and come back afterward to write what happened.

Shame in Costume

Twelve costumes from Appendix A — what each sounds like, what it protects, what it costs, and one small experiment — with room to write where you wear it and with whom.

The Emotional Health Check

Eight pairs of unhealthy and healthy emotions, how each one thinks and what each one does, and which side you were on the last time it came up.

The Emotional Responsibility Principle

Who you believe is in charge of how you feel — with the limit that matters most to anyone who has been mistreated stated plainly.

Your summary, printable

Everything you have written, gathered in one place. Print it as a physical workbook or export a copy for your counselor or group.

Your writing stays on your device

Saved in the browser as you type. Nothing is uploaded and no one else can read it. Use Export and Import to keep a copy or move to another device.

Where the answers go

This is the part a PDF cannot do. Everything written in the workbook is saved to the GraceRoot account that opened it, so it survives a cleared browser, a swapped device or a full tablet. It is readable only by that account — GraceRoot staff have no view of a client's responses, and nothing written here feeds any report. Export or erase it all at any time from inside the workbook.

For families: this workbook is written for young people, so we ask that a parent or guardian holds the account and confirms a short consent notice before any answers are stored. The young person then works inside that account.

Questions

Do I need the book?

It goes furthest alongside it — each chapter exercise assumes you have met the people in that chapter. The field guides stand on their own.

Is it included with the course?

Yes. Enrolling in the Where Are You? course unlocks the workbook at no extra cost, and it is included with the all-access and Family memberships.

Is this therapy?

No. It is structured self-reflection and it says so on the first page. Some of the questions reach into real injury; if what surfaces feels like more than you can carry alone, bring it to a licensed clinician, physician, or pastor you trust.

Where does my writing go?

Into the browser on the device you write on, and nowhere else — GraceRoot never receives it. That also means clearing your browser data loses it, so use Export to keep a copy.

Do I keep access?

Yes. A one-time purchase is permanent access, including future updates.

Start with the free preview

The welcome pages, the SWAN Reflection Scale and the first worksheet are free to work through. If it fits, the full workbook is $39 once, or included with the Flourishing and Family plans.

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Program Clarity

GraceRoot courses are psychoeducational learning programs, not emergency care, legal advice, or a replacement for therapy. Certificates document GraceRoot completion. Court, employer, board, or continuing education acceptance should be confirmed before purchase unless a page states a specific approval.