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Part of the Premarital Counseling Series: Building Covenant Through Relational Integrity — Course 7 of 10

Premarital Counseling Series — Course 7

Core Section — Building Covenant

Relational Repair, Trust Restoration, and Emotional Reconnection

Learning to Heal What Breaks Before It Breaks the Bond

How couples identify relational ruptures, repair emotional injuries, rebuild trust, restore emotional safety, and strengthen long-term relational resilience — the skills that make covenant marriage sustainable through imperfect people.

6 Modules Self-Paced Dual Sign-In Included Trauma-Informed
Premarital Series · Course 7
$199

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Enrollment for this in-depth series course is not open yet. Start with the introductory course for current enrollment.

✓ 6 trauma-informed modules
✓ Biblical integration every module
✓ Dual access for both partners
✓ Self-paced, mobile-friendly
✓ Dr. Quinones' clinical expertise

Course Objectives

What You Will Learn Together

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Define relational rupture and understand how emotional injuries occur in relationships
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Understand how unresolved conflict and cumulative harm damage emotional safety over time
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Identify attachment injuries, pursue-withdraw cycles, and emotional disconnection patterns
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Practice accountability without defensiveness — ownership language and empathy-centered responses
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Understand the neurological impact of repeated emotional injury and how co-regulation promotes healing
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Learn structured repair conversations — step-by-step methods that restore connection after injury
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Rebuild trust through consistency, emotional responsiveness, and relational integrity over time
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Apply biblical principles of repentance, forgiveness, and restoration to marital covenant
Dr. Donetta Quinones

Your Instructor

Dr. Donetta Quinones

Licensed Professional Counselor (LPC) · Licensed Mental Health Counselor (LMHC)

Dr. Quinones brings over 20 years of clinical experience spanning jail cells, rehab centers, and private practice. A Licensed Professional Counselor (LPC) and Licensed Mental Health Counselor (LMHC) with a PhD in Psychology, graduate training in forensic psychology, and certification as a Human Behavior Consultant, she integrates trauma science with biblical truth throughout her teaching and curriculum development. She holds dual state licensure and has spent her career sitting with the most broken relationships — and watching them heal.

PhD in Psychology · MA, Forensic Psychology PhD · LPC · LMHC Program Development Trauma-Informed Specialist

Course Curriculum

6 Modules — From Rupture to Restoration

Each module integrates clinical science, practical repair skills, and biblical truth for the couple preparing for covenant marriage.

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Module 1

Understanding Relational Ruptures

Participants learn how emotional injuries occur in relationships and how unresolved ruptures create relational distance and mistrust over time. Understanding the nature of cumulative harm is foundational to building a covenant that can repair itself.

Key Topics
  • Emotional injury
  • Attachment ruptures
  • Relational fragmentation
  • Emotional pain accumulation
  • Safety disruptions
Biblical Integration
  • Proverbs 18:14 — the weight of a wounded spirit
  • Ephesians 4:31-32 — put away bitterness, be kind
  • James 3:5-10 — the tongue's power to wound
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Module 2

The Attachment Injury Cycle

This module explores how attachment wounds create protest behaviors, withdrawal, defensiveness, and emotional shutdown patterns. Recognizing the cycle is the first step to interrupting it before marriage makes it a permanent pattern.

Key Topics
  • Protest behaviors
  • Withdrawal cycles
  • Emotional abandonment fears
  • Attachment panic
  • Emotional accessibility
Biblical Integration
  • Romans 12:15 — weep with those who weep
  • Galatians 6:2 — bear one another's burdens
  • Colossians 3:13 — bearing with one another
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Module 3

Accountability Without Defensiveness

Participants learn how defensiveness blocks healing while accountability promotes repair and trust restoration. The difference between shame-based deflection and ownership-centered humility is at the heart of relational repair.

Key Topics
  • Defensiveness patterns
  • Accountability language
  • Empathy-centered responses
  • Ownership and humility
  • Shame vs. accountability
Biblical Integration
  • Proverbs 28:13 — covering sin vs. confessing
  • James 5:16 — confess to one another
  • Philippians 2:3-4 — counting others more significant
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Module 4

The Neuroscience of Trust and Repair

This module explores how repeated relational injury affects the nervous system and attachment security. Understanding why trust feels impossible after injury — and how co-regulation rebuilds neurological safety — equips couples to heal with patience and precision.

Key Topics
  • Hypervigilance patterns
  • Emotional flooding responses
  • Co-regulation principles
  • Stress responses
  • Nervous system safety
Biblical Integration
  • Isaiah 26:3 — perfect peace through trust
  • 2 Timothy 1:7 — a spirit of power, love, and sound mind
  • Psalm 147:3 — He heals the brokenhearted
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Module 5

Structured Repair Conversations

Couples learn step-by-step repair methods that restore connection after relational injury. From structured apologies to validating emotional impact and creating relational repair plans — practical tools grounded in both clinical evidence and scripture.

Key Topics
  • Repair scripts and sequencing
  • Impact vs. intent
  • Emotional validation
  • Reconciliation process
  • Trust rebuilding plans
Biblical Integration
  • Matthew 5:23-24 — leave your gift and be reconciled
  • Ephesians 4:26 — do not let the sun go down on anger
  • Colossians 3:14 — put on love, which binds everything
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Module 6

Rebuilding Connection After Rupture

Participants learn how consistency, emotional responsiveness, and relational integrity restore intimacy and connection over time. Earned trust — the kind built through sustained behavioral change — is the foundation of long-term covenant resilience.

Key Topics
  • Earned trust
  • Relational consistency
  • Emotional responsiveness
  • Reconnection after injury
  • Covenant restoration
Biblical Integration
  • Hosea 2:19 — I will betroth you in faithfulness
  • 1 Corinthians 13:7 — love endures all things
  • Ecclesiastes 4:12 — a cord of three strands

Who This Course Is For

Built for Couples Who Want to Repair Well

This course is for engaged or seriously committed couples who want to learn the repair skills that will protect their marriage before those skills are desperately needed.

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Engaged Couples

Preparing for marriage and wanting practical tools for the inevitable moments when connection breaks — so you can restore it quickly and well.

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Couples With Past Injuries

Partners who have already experienced relational ruptures and want structured, clinically-grounded methods to repair and rebuild trust together.

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Faith-Based Couples

Couples seeking premarital preparation that integrates biblical principles of repentance, forgiveness, and restoration with clinical repair science.

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Couples in Premarital Counseling

A structured clinical supplement to counseling — giving couples the vocabulary and frameworks to deepen their repair work with a therapist.

Every Covenant Needs a Repair Kit

The couples who last aren't the ones who never break — they're the ones who know how to put things back together. This course gives you the tools, the language, and the biblical framework before you need them.

$199
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Program Clarity

GraceRoot courses are psychoeducational learning programs, not emergency care, legal advice, or a replacement for therapy. Certificates document GraceRoot completion. Court, employer, board, or continuing education acceptance should be confirmed before purchase unless a page states a specific approval.

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